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Questions / Concerns :
Ok. So I'm having a sort of crisis I guess you could call it. See, I've been in several different relationships where I thought I was in "love", but wasn't really sure, and later realized saying I was in love, was rather out of impulse than of actual meaning. So in every relationship I've been in, I've better come to realize the actual meaning of what a relationship should be. It's all the "feeling" that hadn't really ever occurred in ANY of my relationships. I blame this generation. Anyways that's not my point, lol sorry. In conclusion I guess I would have to say that I should let my heart do the talking instead of my mind if that makes any sense.
Soo! There's this girl </3 She's all I ever think about every day pretty much. I find myself hardly thinking about anything other than her >.> I never believed in "love at first sight" until I laid my eyes upon her. I mean I always thought you can't love someone you don't actually know. So then, I TRIED to get to know her. Btw, still thinking I'm in love with her. (Ok, so I facebook'd her, which is lame) But I had to talk to her somehow considering I couldn't come up with something to say to her in person.. And it was ok, then I got her number and started to text her, found myself smiling at every response, which is strange because I didn't really understand, I sort of get wellll. Butterflies. We only talked for about 2 days :'/ I never gave up trying to talk to her but right now I'm on the verge of just trying to forget about her, but when I try. IT just pain's me. I know she's ignoring me, and I could understand that I guess. I feel misleaded in a way. We were talking, and she said that we should be bff's, and holyshi.. I was pretty excited, maybe I got a little too excited? Next day.. Hardly talked to me. I just thought that she was "the one" because I can't see myself being with anyone other than her. I don't want to be with anyone but her :'/ Thennn! I get like super jealous.. nvm that's a different story, but what should I do? I am pretty young still lolol.
Advice / Answers :
Honestly, i've never been in love so i can't really give you advice coming from experience. But what i do know is that if you really believe that she is "the one," someone worth fighting for, you should never give up on her. i still don't know what love is, and i'm still young, just like you. Maybe love at first sight is real, maybe what you think is love is real, maybe not. Maybe you're just blinded by beauty. Maybe it's true when people say that you'll know if it's love, and if you aren't shure, then it's not. That's all up to you to find out. But personally, someone who makes your heart beat faster, your knees weak, blush like crazy and you can never stop thinking about them, that is definitely not something worth giving up on. So my advice to you is : Keep trying, because if that someone makes you so much happier, at no point should you give up.